Gay bar muslim book
The book is interspersed with visits to club nights, something Ghaziani says helps widen the possibilities for communities—different communities can have their own nights and these chapters where he visits these various hot spots are exciting and first person. I found this book so — luscious. I wanted to go to all of the clubs and places that Amin went to — and especially to Femmetopia—a femme inspired night!
I found the work immersive I could pretty much even smell those spaces…and the yearning that queer folk have to inhabit those kinds of fantasy worlds made real—Buttmizvah—a night specifically Jewish inspired! Do we still need them? Can queer nights give us that? It stands true today—if you can even still find that special, sacred place—the gay bar within driving distance.
LGBT+ History Month 2024
These are monthly parties. In LA, we had two lesbian bars—The Rubyfruit, open for only a few years and closed due to the January fires and promising to re-open soon! But so far—no date. In Long Beach we also have Watch Me! NBC says they are expected to quadruple in Watch Me! That also remains to be seen.
I remember dancing until dawn with gay male friends in San Franciso under a disco ball and then walking in early morning fog to the center of the Golden Gate Bridge and watching the sun rise. That was one night and I have book remembered the joy I felt muslim on that bridge after dancing all night. Is it enough gay have a night?
One of the things I found in researching gay bars was the democracy of them. One could show up in a city, during the period I researched and ask a cab driver or as my informants said follow a butch woman. But the assumption that there would be a gay bar somewhere in any mid-size to large city was correct.
That is not correct today. I ran into a friend of mine from the states who had relocated to the UK. Otherwise, I was one of the only attendees who went to the party. I was alone, but not alone—I had a great time—would I have had a better time if I had known more people? My friend from the US, then UK, was with his wife and we chatted but he was off to his own thing.
I stayed to the end and it was fabulous but of course yes, I think it would have been better if I had known more people. What kind of living can be made from club nights? Who gets to make bar living?